We carry a variety of harnesses. Harnesses come in a variety of materials including Vegan friendly as well as leather. For the beginner a Harness Kit might just be the way to go. Enclosed you'll find an adjustable harness and at least 1 flared based dildo to get you started. If you have tried harnesses perhaps you just want to up grade, then you can mix and match with a universal harness, meaning the hole will fit most dildos as long as they have a flared base.